A popular epigram is: "Experience is the name everyone gives to his mistakes."
Yesterday, I was a living embodiment of those words -- a gazillion times over.
While
working at my younger daughters house, I needed to move my truck to
better position myself to load a chipper shredder on the back cargo
rack. Somehow, I managed to shatter the tailgate glass of my Ford
Expedition.
This "Oh, F*!K" moment brought to you by SERENITY. I actually found myself looking down at the gazillions of tiny shreds of glass and thought, "Well, there is nothing I can do to change this. Grant me the serenity to accept it and move on." (Then I looked around to see if anyone had noticed my bonehead mistake).
I then moved into "Carpe diem" mode:
Choose: To sweep up the mess and get the glass replaced.
Action List: Sweep, text my daughter to make sure she never goes barefoot in her driveway and garage, call to get an appointment to have the glass replaced.
Resources: Broom, humility, D-Patrick Body and Glass.
Persistent Action: Swept. And swept. And swept. And made the call.
Evaluate the progress: Ongoing
Direction?: Fortunately, all things were coming together, so I maintained direction
Improvement: I left the drive and garage better than I found it.
Enjoy the Process: Okay, maybe that's going too far. But, I didn't get upset.
My Life: I accepted that this was my responsibility. Didn't blame anyone or anything.
D-Patrick was great. They found a used piece of glass, ordered it, and put it in faster than I've had some oil changes done.
Sure, it was an expensive "mistake" -- but invaluable "experience."
I concluded by quoting another epigram:
"If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to be a horrible warning." - Catherine the Great.
Have a great weekend.
Carpe diem Life,
David Kuhn
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