A popular epigram is: "Experience is the name everyone gives to his mistakes."
Yesterday, I was a living embodiment of those words -- a gazillion times over.
While
 working at my younger daughters house, I needed to move my truck to 
better position myself to load a chipper shredder on the back cargo 
rack.   Somehow, I managed to shatter the tailgate glass of my Ford 
Expedition.  
This "Oh, F*!K" moment brought to you by SERENITY.  I actually found myself looking down at the gazillions of tiny shreds of glass and thought, "Well, there is nothing I can do to change this.  Grant me the serenity to accept it and move on."  (Then I looked around to see if anyone had noticed my bonehead mistake). 
I then moved into "Carpe diem" mode:
Choose:  To sweep up the mess and get the glass replaced.
Action List:  Sweep, text my daughter to make sure she never goes barefoot in her driveway and garage, call to get an appointment to have the glass replaced.
Resources:  Broom, humility, D-Patrick Body and Glass.
Persistent Action:  Swept.  And swept. And swept. And made the call.
Evaluate the progress:  Ongoing
Direction?:  Fortunately, all things were coming together, so I maintained direction
Improvement:  I left the drive and garage better than I found it.  
Enjoy the Process:  Okay, maybe that's going too far.  But, I didn't get upset.
My Life:  I accepted that this was my responsibility.  Didn't blame anyone or anything.  
D-Patrick was great.  They found a used piece of glass, ordered it, and put it in faster than I've had some oil changes done.  
Sure, it was an expensive "mistake" -- but invaluable "experience."
I concluded by quoting another epigram:  
"If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to be a horrible warning." - Catherine the Great.
Have a great weekend.  
Carpe diem Life,
David Kuhn 

 
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